Letters

Excerpts from "An Open Letter to my Future Wife"
Real Love, Inc.

Kind of backwards, isn't it?  Here I am - a guy - telling you that I won't have sex with you.  Don't they say that it's usually the other way around?

Sure, I'd love to sleep with you.  Much more than you know. You're beautiful - and the more I learn about you, the more beautiful you become.  I'm very attracted to you, sexually as well as emotionally and intellectually.

A lot of people, probably most people, think that sex is an expression of love, and if we're in love, we'd be crazy not to have sex. So why not?

Because I love you.

Loving you means wanting what's best for you. Sure sex would be great. But it would put you at a lot of risks.

And hurting you is the last thing I'd ever want to do.

Excerpts from "An Open Letter to my Future Husband"
Real Love, Inc.

Apparently, for some bizarre reason, manhood doesn't come automatically for males. Some guys seem to spend their entire lives trying to "prove their manhood" - by hunting, playing sports, driving fast...and, unfortunately, by having sex. It seems rather strange to us women that guys think having sex proves you're a man. To us, it just proves that you've reached puberty. And we don't really consider that, in itself, to be any great accomplishment. Becoming a man is a much more complicated process.

I want more from you. I want you to respect your sexuality as much as I respect mine. I want you to be a real, confident man, not a wimp who has to use women to feed his insecurity.

I want you to learn to really love. Learning to love is learning to put the other first. A real man loves women - all women - and wants what's best for them. And he doesn't let his desires control his actions. He controls his desires instead.

Thanks for waiting for me, I promise you won't regret it.

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